Author Archives: CC Saint-Clair

Desire it. Crave It – Get it – And Then … What?

Part 1 Most of us have a list of ‘things’, achievements and relationships we think we need to be happy … in the future. It’s true for many of us that our thoughts churn with regular monotony through our perceived lack. Bucket lists have become increasingly popular over the past 15 years or so. As

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If It’s Not Our Genes …

Part 2  Science tells us our genes do not define our life but that they compose its blueprint. As they hold the keys to our health, mind and physical potentiality, genes are, indeed, the main elements of our pre-utero destiny for our time, here and now. Science confirms that small differences in our DNA contribute

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The Stress Of Desiring

Part 3 Here is a fact: we, the most modern beings ever to live on planet Earth are driven by the same nervous system, our sympathetic nervous system, as were our most distant ancestors, the earliest version of Homo sapiens, who lived in a volatile environment. It’s well documented that, as it prepares the body

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Ever Grateful, Are We?

Part 4 True or false: gratitude sucks. It pulls us away from our addictive compulsion to self-pity. True or False: gratitude is our heart’s best friend. Our heart’s best friend is our mind’s best friend. Because our brain doesn’t think for herself, whatever our mind enjoys, our brain likes as well. So, our brain responds

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Background For The ‘Warriors, We Are’ series

Background for the ‘Warriors, We Are’ series of mind-meanders   We cannot have a healed society, we cannot have change, we cannot have justice, if we do not reclaim and repair the human spirit – Angel Kyodo Williams The bulk of this series was drafted throughout 2019. It was a year referenced worldwide as one

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Breasts Attract Eyes As Honey Attracts Bees

Here is a truism: breasts attract eyes as honey attracts bees. And here is another: What the eye does not admire, the heart does not covet. There is much wisdom in this ancient idiom but sexual desire, the coming together of several different neural mechanisms within our limbic system, has a mind of its own. So, we might be nearer to the truth of the matter if we agree that whatever the heart does not covet doesn’t trigger urges.

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Bare All – Shine Light

The Universal Declaration of Human Rights passed in 1948 and translated into more than 500 languages guarantees among several others the rights to equal wages for equal work, respect and personal safety to all persons. However, in some countries, it is said ‘life is cheap’, that self-control is not a cultural expectation, that men are violent towards other men and, often, that violence is directed towards women and children. Their hurt, pain and death are simply considered unfortunate by-products of these volatile cultures in flux.

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About Locks and Defensive Walls

Since keys and locks appeared in ancient Egypt and Assyria, Man has gone to great lengths to keep himself as well as his compassionate heart – behind locked gates in a bid to protect himself and all that he considers his ‘possessions’.These days, personal experience shapes neither our emotions nor our thoughts nor our actions. Like never before, our judgement is zapped by the relentless and manipulative energy of posts, tweets, and retweets on the back of TV or Facebook ‘news’ and media reports.

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The More Men Search for Masculine Energy – The More Naked Is the Female Body

Here, at the start of this new mind-meander, is as good a place as any to ponder why to this day, despite his inherent height and muscle advantage, Man has relied on his wardrobe to give him the enhanced masculine edge he feels he needs to boost his natural endowments. While in search of inspiration, intrigue and visual titillation, Man has denuded Woman and he, himself, has had to endure life swathed in archetypal garments intended to give him a more commanding, robust allure.

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Wonder Woman – Sexy Brawn

October 12, 2016 – It has just been announced that Wonder Woman, the actual comic book character [not Lynda Carter, actress in the 1975 TV series] would become an honorary ambassador in support of the UN’s sustainable development goal number five which is “to achieve gender equality and empower all women and girls”.Not surprisingly, the announcement was met with a silent protest, mostly from women, who voiced concerns over WW’s ‘overtly sexualised image’ that is not ‘culturally encompassing or sensitive.’

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Warriors We Are

Courage comes from our willingness to trust and be humble little blind mice in a maze. No idea in which direction lie the coveted morsels of cheese. No idea behind which are hidden the punishing electrical pulses.

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Tough Stuff: thought control

It's Cultural. It's Not us.

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The Stepping Stones Series

Rethinking Thinking

Volumes 1 & 2 of the Stepping Stones to the Top of the World Series.

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